That is the new saying I hear all the time, "now that you are adopting you will get pregnant" This is now the most annoying comment you can say to someone. Yeah right, signing those adoption papers will magically fix my husbands sperm and make everything work right! We had two failed IVF's- hello people. We couldn't get pregnant in a lab, what makes you think we can get pregnant naturally!?
Yes, there are a lot of women who adopt and then get pregnant- I am sure it helps to take the stress off, because stress does effect trying to conceive.
But in actuality only 8% of all couples that are faced with infertility who go onto adopt get pregnant.
So please to your friends who are adopting just say, "we are so excited for you, you guys will be great parents" and leave it at that!
New Adventures
8 years ago
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